tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8301169739772147369.post2105937111908682891..comments2020-10-29T01:01:02.511-04:00Comments on Raising Awareness About Abuse and Narcissism: LINK BETWEEN ABUSE VICTIMS AND ANXIETYabusemom81http://www.blogger.com/profile/18122539484692019580noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8301169739772147369.post-23855914982139680872009-12-03T16:10:54.534-05:002009-12-03T16:10:54.534-05:00I thought it was interesting too! I'm glad you...I thought it was interesting too! I'm glad you called the hotline: did it help? did they offer resources like counseling or groups for you? If I can ask, how long you were with him in total and did he ever hurt the kids? And it's unfortunatel, it seems you grew up with abuse in your family and then you always went through it with him...you have had enough abuse in your life girl!!! I am glad to see that you are moving past that and you will find a good man!abusemom81https://www.blogger.com/profile/18122539484692019580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8301169739772147369.post-58496911964884119122009-12-02T01:10:36.968-05:002009-12-02T01:10:36.968-05:00Interesting. I had the same thing happen within a ...Interesting. I had the same thing happen within a few months of marrying my abuser. I was having terrible panick attacks all day long. I would wake up at night with awful panick attacks and actually get up and do strenuous exercise to try to "burn" it out. Eventually they stopped, but I did get to the point where I would start to panic at the realization that my abuser was coming home rom work each night.<br /><br /> There were so many signs of abuse even before I married him, but because none were at the level of what I watched my own mother go through I didn't recognize it as abuse. I also was seeking out any kind of love or emotional connection and was afraid to back out of the relationship even with the serious signs of abuse and control. I had serious doubts but was too afraid of being alone if I acted on them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com