tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8301169739772147369.post6556383003295734665..comments2020-10-29T01:01:02.511-04:00Comments on Raising Awareness About Abuse and Narcissism: Being abused by your narcissistic and violent partnerabusemom81http://www.blogger.com/profile/18122539484692019580noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8301169739772147369.post-23535585205601103862009-12-02T01:17:08.201-05:002009-12-02T01:17:08.201-05:00I never talked about the abuse. My abuser would mo...I never talked about the abuse. My abuser would monitor me closely to find out if I was ever saying anything about him to anyone and he made it clear that I was never to talk about his problems to anyone. <br /><br />I kept it from my family, who I was not allowed to be around much anyway, and I kept it from anyone I was friends with. When it all came out one of the big things was that my abuser's family said I was making it up and lying because they never knew anything until the point when I spoke up. It was hard to deal with that, but I realized that no matter what I had done it would have never justified my leaving the abusive marriage to them. To my abuser's family, who are devote mormons, it is wrong, no matter what, to leave a marrige.Also, my abuser's family has been in as much denial about the abuse as my abuser always was, and still is. To them they just refuse to acknowledge any abuse ever happened.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com